Benjamin was invited to a birthday party at the local skating place. I decided to let him do his party and take the other kids and pay for them to skate. I try for normalcy. I just want to be able to take the kids out and have fun. Somedays I take all the kids regardless of behaviors. Some kids actually miss out on stuff because of other kids behaviors too often.
However, as some of you know, a fun activity is often followed by negative behaviors. I know it happens, I simply don't understand it.
However, all the kids did enjoy skating.
I can see that I need to get Benjamin a pair of skates so he can practice at home.
Who else has this backlash of negative behaviors following a fun event?
Anyone feel that other kids in the home miss out because some kids can't manage their behaviors?
Yes and yes. That is our life. Have fun, next day sabotage everything to ruin that brief feel of family.
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