Sometimes when life gets busy the first thing that caregivers/moms give up is things that they do for themselves. However, it is important to do things for yourself, something that gives you joy.
I have always enjoyed reading and creating. I enjoy a good book but also enjoy reading blogs and such on the internet. I don't typically have time to commit to a novel so I surf the web. However, lately I have taken to reading novels again. For me to be creative means many things. I could be painting an octopus in the laundry room, repainting a room, designing a costume or many other things. I find that when I am not creating I feel stagnant. That is why I have enjoyed my shop immensely.
The other day I was painting and talking to a friend on the phone. She said that she couldn't paint the feathers so as I was talking (I have a house phone because we get poor cell phone reception at the house.) I taped a little bit of me painting. I have never taped myself painting before.
So, I am curious as to what everyone else does. Let me know who is still reading along with my blog, what do you do that is for you and where are you from.
I have girls night with a friend every other weekend. I am so tired sometimes but I try to never cancel no matter what. I might be home by 9, but at least have a few hours laughing, relaxing.
ReplyDeleteI coach vaulting. Yes, my kids are there, but there are many other kids there. I love working with the horses, watching all the kids make progress, and being with the other coaches (who happen to be some of my best friends). It's extremely therapeutic.
ReplyDeleteI go to the movies alone. Read books and travel alone to go see my grown children. I know it's time when I spend more time thinking resentful thoughts, than I do enjoying my gifts
ReplyDeleteI love to read and spend too much of my time doing that and leaving housework to another time.
ReplyDeleteEvery Friday at our house involves guests. We rotate game nights, creative nights and book group nights. Since the kids are also occupied, I sometimes actively participate...sometimes sit back and watch. It's social, regardless.
ReplyDeleteTime away from home. Even if it means just grocery shopping by myself. I just need to not have to interact with people after spending every day with all 7 kids!
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