tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6980635032314035803.post2442503374824192340..comments2024-02-28T17:35:23.639-06:00Comments on Stare if you must..........: Bad ChoicesFeliciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05558893889667088182noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6980635032314035803.post-10780422484437241862010-11-02T07:22:34.657-05:002010-11-02T07:22:34.657-05:00She may have to fall flat on her face before she&#...She may have to fall flat on her face before she's ready for help. It's hard to watch it, I know. You wonder if they are going to con people through life because everything is handed to them by outsiders who think they are helping but really they are sending the wrong message. But above all, let this be her problem, not yours. It's easy to make more work for ourselves trying to give them help they don't want. I was doing something recently and I realized I was owning one of the children's problems by the energy it took me to make him do something each week and once I realized, I just told him I wasn't going to do what I was doing anymore and whatever happened would just have to happen.Kathy Casselhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02886511489428522492noreply@blogger.com